Freedom for Girls- Good or Bad?

I am a Girl 
I am very proud about that.
Why should I feel ashamed of that?
"It's my Identity"
The main reason most of the girls wish to be "A Boy" at some point of life...  Is because Boys have more freedom.
But I don't agree with that.
Even girls can grab their freedom with challenges.  We r given challenges because they know "we are worth fighting for".
From my own experience I have realised that..."Only few girls make use of their freedom in the right way"
I have seen that freedom have spoiled girls more than empowering them.
So Freedom with proper insight and maturity is needed.
At some point we have to make decisions! Boundaries don't keep other people out. They fence you in. Life is messy. That's how we r made.
So, you can waste drawing lines or you can live your life crossing them!
"It all lies in our perspective and what we want from life! "

Whom should we FEAR for?
First-  Your conscious
Second- Mom and Dad
Third- Nobody else (Friends, boyfriends, relatives or anyone who comes into your life)

How many more years you will be living a life getting commands from others?
Don't you want to spread your winds and hitch the sky?
It's time. It's time you realize how to get your freedom. Not through fights or protesting.
"Attaining freedom by gaining trust."

It takes years to build but it works out well. Trust me.
Let me explain this through a small real life story of a girl who gained her freedom in the right way.

Let's call the girl "Tinker bell"
Tinker bell was the little princess in her family. She was bought up with a perfect discipline and strict rules. She was taught how to respect her family and the importance of culture. She had the best childhood with all moral values and the best education.
Tinker bell's father always trusted his daughter but for him, the world was a real nightmare.
He thought tinker bell was too innocent to survive this world. That's the reason why she was kept in a cage than allowed to fly outside.

Yeah. This is the story of Tinker bell on how she spread her wings of freedom in the best way.

As tinker bell touched her sweet sixteen, she wanted to explore the outer world.
She wanted to know and experience every little thing.
Her father feared to let her out.
With all those doubts he let her go "by holding her inside his palms"

The clever father held her inside a transparent nest called the "TRUST"
He made her fly high yet he watched every step she took.
When she fell down, he paved the way to get up but he never helped her. That way tinker bell learned to survive this world. She learned every little thing in a hard way but her father was watching her in every step.He made sure that she was safe.

She proved herself with her academics. She showed her dad that she is worth giving a try. She made her family come close with her friends. Her family knew every little thing that was happening in her life.
That way tinker bell's dad was sure about her and her friends. So he never hesitated to let her out.
If she encountered with any problem, tinker bell was so confident to face it because she had her family in the first place.
Isn't awesome?
She just carved her life to flow easily.
That way she enjoyed every little thing that life gave her.

She never lied.
She never sacrificed anything.
She never stood back.
She never cheated her father.
She never protested.

Yet she got every little thing she wished for.
"TRUTH"  has the power to achieve anything and everything in this world.

The greatest gift a father can give his baby girl is "TRUST"
Tinker bell felt so blessed since she felt so delighted to have that gift in her life.
"She focused on building the TRUST which her father gave rather misusing it"
Although it took years to build,
Now tinker bell is a proud girl who has the pride to say "I have every freedom I want and I am no where restricted. I enjoy equal freedom a guy can get"
Tinker bell got her freedom by letting her dad realise that "She won't choose the wrong path"
Now she is In her twenty's... And She has no Regrets and left out wishes! She does what her heart says and she isn't tied to anyone in this world. Everything comes to her at the right time.

Moral- It's in your hands to enjoy ur freedom. No one is holding it. It's you who have to build the TRUST to let it out.

This world is the best place if you want good out of it.
So girls, get your freedom by doing right and at the right time.

Cheers,
Aboorva ,a girl among you.

Note: This blog is for my cheerful girls who felt bad that your freedom is taken since "you are a girl"
It's not. It's your mistake that you have not grabbed your freedom in the right way.
You will realise this blog only when you start implementing what I said.
Happy life!